Its a thing that is hard the father has needed, particularly if you have that attraction and people emotions.

Elder Holland explained that the Church doesn’t make judgment about emotions or attraction but instead on behavior and what one actually does. “We don’t make an ecclesiastical judgment or a disciplinary choice on such basis as just exactly what someone feels or sites that they will have. That which we ask is, please usually do not act contrary to the commandments or as opposed to covenants or contrary towards the teachings for the Lord in addition to prophets. Please act that is don’t tourist attractions that could alienate you against the Spirit and through the human anatomy associated with the Church.”